Women! Do they ever know what they want?

Saw this on Facebook. Even though i know its meant as a joke but I found it quite insulting

Are women really as complicated as men say they are?? There are so many jokes around showing women as really complex beings who do not even know what they want talk - making it practically impossible for the men in their lives to know how to relate with them.

But is this true????

Absolutely not!

Men are different from women - in everything. God made it so from the beginning.  But that's really what makes it all fun. They say that men are straight forward - but that is very subjective. If the person you are relating with doesn't understand you, then you aren't straight forward. And lots of women don't understand lots of men.
The simple truth is that most men are "relationship - lazy". Lazy to pay attention. Lazy to take out time to understand. Lazy to study. Its this laziness that cause a lot of guys to say "Women are complex".

Let me break it down for you.

Don't just hear what she is saying, LISTEN. To the undertone.
She says "you don't care. Your job is your wife. You don't put your family first". You ask her "what do you want me to do? I shouldn't work again". She says "work ooo, am I holding you". You are confused. WHAT ON EARTH DOES SHE WANT FROM ME? U NEED TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE. That is very good dear - noble of you but She wants you to spend some time with her and the children -  just focused on them. Thats what she wants. She doesn't want to come out to say it because she feels it makes her  look weak and needy. So she makes a camouflage case. It takes a wise man to decode.
No man is a mind reader, YES. But in your job, You anticipate your client's needs, your boss's action/reaction. You take out time to be on top of situations. You put in work for everything that is valuable to you in your place of business. But back home, You relax. You don't take the time. Every partnership requires to be worked on for it to succeed.

Most women aren't courageous enough to come out plain and tell you what is upsetting them. They use different methods to pass across the message that they aren't happy. The SILENT TREATMENT is one of those methods.
When a woman starts with the SILENT TREATMENT, an observing man will notice and be able to pin point around what time it started and what happened in the time that may be the culprit. Other guys will just chuck it up to "her winch don start". They ignore her and resentment builds in her heart.

Some women are courageous enough to tell you exactly what is bothering them and then the men say things like "You don't have a case. Is it this non - issue you are breaking head for? You're not even making sense". Sentences like this stab a woman in the soul. She just told you what is worrying her and you say its a "Non -  issue". That means your are saying she is a mad person that is worried about a non - issue. She has told you what is bothering her, whether it makes sense to you or not - THAT IS WHAT IS BOTHERING HER ! The least you can do is try and see how you guys can work it out instead of making her feel little for opening up to you.

During dating - men take time to check their girlfriend's countenance to see when she is happy or not and race to make things right. Why does it stop in marriage??? Marriage that is the long haul? It beats me. It honestly does.