I hate ABUSE, in whatever form.
Physical, emotional, psychological; but
the one I hate the most - the one that makes we wish to have supernatural
powers so I can properly deal with the perpetrator, the one I HATE to hear of -
is SEXUAL ABUSE!
It kills me inside when I hear a person
was sexually abused.
When I hear it’s a
child...................Oh dear God! I feel like the perpetrator be fried,
slowly, in a basin of hot oil, mixed with Cameroon pepper - after being
castrated and his tongue cut off! That's how much I loath pedophiles.
Why on God's green earth will a person lay
a hand - sexually on a person who isn't an adult???
I can't understand it so I’ll just
chalk it up to "it’s demon possession" (we have a way of going
spiritual with things we can't comprehend, right?)
Well,
since I have successfully (I hope) let you in on how much I hate people who
defile children, let us take a little step backwards, clear our heads and
really think about this. Do you know that some kids cry wolf when nothing has
actually happened???? You don’t believe that to be true, right?
I
didn’t too, until recently
A
petty trader in my area has a girl of about 10 living with her. I don’t see
that girl anymore so I asked about her from another woman who is close to them.
The story I heard shocked me to the bone and made me re-evaluate everything I have
ever heard about child molesters.
The
little girl was sent on an errand to an office in the area. She went there and
instead of doing what she came for and leaving, she started playing and
chatting with the guys in that office (the office assistants and stuff) The
gist was getting too much and the boys were being too playful with her so one
of the ogas in the office came out and asked her to do what she came for and
leave quickly.
The
girl left. Only for her to go some soldiers who guard a government
establishment in the area (the soldiers know her very well) she went to them,
crying bitterly, and told them that someone tried ‘fingering’ her. The soldiers
were mad! They immediately wore their boots and marched her to show them the ‘bloody
baga’. The girl took them to that office and pointed to the oga who sent her
away! The man was so confused when the soldiers came to meet him. He denied
from north to south, from east to west but the soldiers were hearing none of
it. They probably would have beaten him black and blue if not that they know
the guy quite well in the area. As the commotion was going on someone caught
the girl giving the man the tongue from behind the soldiers (she was doing ‘ntoor’
to the guy!)
The
person shouted and pointed it out. That was when it dawned on everyone that the
girl was lying! She was angry with the man for cutting short her play time with
the boys so she decided to frame him. She probably knows how much people hate
child molesters so she decided to use that story.
Can
u imagine!
This
is a girl who is still in primary school.
Can
u imagine how many ‘pedophiles’ and ‘child molesters’ have been framed like
this????
We
think these children can’t do stuff like this. I thought so too. How wrong we
are. Some of them have grown to be so evil!
God
help us!
Before
we jump in conclusions when we hear of allegations like this, we should take
out time to do some investigations. Really interview the child and people
around. Let’s be absolutely sure before we nail that person to the cross.
And
let’s also try to raise our kids to know right and wrong. To know the value in
integrity and the value in a good name.
Prayer
God
please help me as well as all parents do right by our kids, give us wisdom to
train our kids aright and help us keep them safe from all evil and evil people,
Amen.
